Choosing abstinence

Abstinence is often defined as not having any type of sexual intercourse. Some people define abstinence more broadly as not engaging in any sexual activity. Practicing abstinence is a personal choice. Some people may do so for a range of reasons, including spiritual reasons, because they are not ready for sex or because they want to focus on a priority, like school or an extra-curricular activity. Let's explore what practicing abstinence looks like in a romantic relationship.

Masturbation

Masturbation is the touching of one's own body, especially the genitals, for sexual pleasure. Some people masturbate and others do not. Either way is normal. Masturbation can help you learn about your body and your sexual feelings without the complications that can come with sexual activity involving another person.

Body image

How you think about what your body looks like is called body image. Sometimes how we think about our bodies can be influenced negatively by what we see in the media and our interactions with other people. Images and representations of the "perfect" body type can make us believe that our own bodies are not acceptable and beautiful.

Wet dreams explained

A wet dream happens when semen is released from the penis during sleep. Wet dreams are a normal part of puberty and are a sign that the body is developing and maturing. Learning about these changes can help young people understand their bodies and feel more confident as they grow.

Menstruation explained

Beginning menstruation, often called getting your period, is a normal part of going through puberty for girls. Your period happens around once a month because changes from puberty signal your brain to release new chemicals, called hormones, into your body.